When I work with you as an Individual Guide, I help you to successfully navigate any tensions that you may be encountering along the boundaries between your inner and your outer world. The purpose of successfully navigating these tensions is not simply to make you feel more comfortable, but to encourage the healthy and positive flow of ideas and imaginings into consistently valuable outcomes. One of the main challenges that you may have encountered in working with these boundary tensions is that you often experience them at an unconscious level and so may find it challenging to actually put the tension into words and identify it. By working with you in conversation, and in action, I help you to identify these tensions, so that you can use them to create a healthy free-flowing connection between your inner and your outer worlds.
Rather than using the conventional approach of coaching, which is usually just observing and reflecting insights about your intended performance and actual performance, or mentoring where I sagely share wisdom and insight with you, my work with you as an Individual Guide help you to become more aware of your self, which is how you naturally experience the connection between your inner and outer worlds. As we explore this connection, you will naturally become far more aware of how you can consistently turn the ideas and imaginings of your inner world together in to valuable realities in your outer world. In Individual Guiding, I work with your self-awareness of the language and imagery that you naturally use to connect your inner and your outer world.
My value to you as an Individual Guide is in helping you to connect your inner and outer worlds so that you can turn your ideas and imaginings into valuable reality even though you may feel that you are facing insurmountable challenges. The conventional coaching and mentoring methods of doing this are almost all based on working with idealised futures, about how things ‘should‘ be, rather than actually enabling you to connect your inner potential into outer achievement. As I work with you as an Individual Guide, I also show you how to become your own individual guide by working with the Emotion Connection Process, so that you can consistently connect your inner and outer worlds in a healthy free-flowing connection, and successfully navigate yourself through situations that may have initially appeared conflicting and challenging for you.